Yesterday evening, I finished reading Maybe He Just Likes You by Barbara Dee. This realistic fiction novel is about a seventh-grade girl, Mila, who is sexually harassed by a group of boys at school. On her friend Omi's birthday, Mila feels uncomfortable when four of the basketball players in her grade join in during a group hug. Then, the day after, she gives one of the boys a hug when he lies about it being his birthday. Over the days and weeks, the boys continue to become more bold in their actions and make comments about Mila's body. She doesn't know who she can turn to or what she can do to make the harassment stop. Although Omi and another one of her close friends, Max, try to give her advice, her third friend Zara thinks she's just being immature. When Mila begins to go to karate classes, she befriends a girl from band, Samira, and learns how to stand up for herself.
This story is such an important one, especially during the #MeToo movement. I thought Mila was relatable in her struggle to stop being the target of harassment because although I myself was never sexually harassed, I was teased when I was younger and it didn't make me feel very good about myself. I was actually grossed out and furious when I learned that the boys had a scorecard. Although I understand how hard it can be to find a trusted adult who will listen to you, it was a little frustrating as time went on that Mila didn't listen to her friends when they gave her advice about telling her mom or one of the adults at school. I do get it, though. She didn't want to place any more burden on her mom who was struggling at work and eventually decided to quit. It was also hard for Mila to know if Mr. Dolan or Ms. Fender would believe her when it seemed like no one else was around to witness the boys' harassment of her. I definitely enjoyed seeing Mila grow as she started taking karate classes, and it really seemed to be a safe place for her. By the end of the book, I was very proud of Mila for deciding to trust Ms. Fender with her story and sharing how the boys made her feel. I would recommend this timely book to everyone—middle school girls and boys, teachers, parents, and guardians.